http://www.hindu.com/seta/2010/08/12/stories/2010081252111500.htm
this article kindof explained why we lack charity attitude due to our link with genes. What I used to call child is the extension of ego. Hence we tend to love and live only for our family.
Moreover Iam despised by the fact we speak as if we are not so. But when comes to reality we tend to fall in same trap of father , mother and my family , and the others .
My quote of blog comes here , where is the will if we don't act.
Adding to the points I feel the black money in India is the major reason for our businessmen not to indulge in charity as they are not real billionaires but some anonymous bureaucrats and manifested politicians if not all.
this is just manifestation of our many problems . The Solution is kindof simple but difficult to follow . Are u ready?